How Long Can You Wait Before Calling a Funeral Home?
February 24, 2026
Families often ask this in a whisper: “Do we need to call right now?” It’s a completely normal question. In many situations—especially when hospice is involved—you have more time than you think. You are allowed to breathe, gather close family, and take a short moment to process what has happened.
That said, timing can depend on the circumstances. Unexpected deaths may involve authorities, and hospital or facility policies may affect when transfer occurs. The safest approach is simply to ask: hospice or staff will tell you what’s appropriate for your situation.
In general, families can often take time to
- call immediate family members
- sit quietly and say goodbye
- pray or invite a pastor/chaplain (if desired)
- gather essential personal items or information
You should call sooner if
- hospice or authorities instruct you to
- the death is unexpected and requires official response
- there are environmental concerns (heat, access, space)
- you feel anxious and want guidance (that’s valid)
Things to note
- Calling the funeral home does not mean you must make arrangements that night.
- Many families schedule the arrangement meeting the next day or within a couple days.
- A respectful funeral home will not rush you.
A simple timing checklist
- ✅ Confirm hospice involvement (yes/no)
- ✅ Follow hospice/staff/authority guidance
- ✅ Take a moment with family
- ✅ Call the funeral home when ready
- ✅ Plan arrangements later (often next day)
If you want help understanding what timing looks like in your situation, call
[Spann Funeral Home]. We’ll explain it clearly and kindly.
We assist families throughout Dickson, Hickman, and Williamson County including Dickson, Charlotte, Burns, Cumberland Furnace, White Bluff, Fairview, Bon Aqua, Lyles, Kingston Springs and surrounding Middle Tennessee communities.
FAQ
- Can we wait until morning to make decisions?
- Often yes—ask hospice/staff.
- Is it disrespectful to wait?
- No—many families need a short moment to process.
- Do I have to schedule the service immediately?
- No—transfer and arrangements are separate steps.











